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Unfriended On Facebook

Oct 19, 2021
by Caroline Miller
42 tribes of Kenya, African Missionaries, ancient gods of Sub-Saharan Africa, Catholic Church, covid-19, East Africa in 1960s, Evangelicals, Holy Inquisition, Kenya, Mau Mau uprising, The Holy Inquisition, the Holy Sacrament, the moral compass of atheists, the Pope
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Ngai, God of the Kikuyu courtesy of wikipedia.org

Last week, 3 Kenyans on my Facebook list unfriended me. I’d mentioned I was an atheist which caused one woman to call me a fool before disconnecting. I wasn’t surprised by her reaction. For centuries, non-believers have suffered contempt or even death at the hands of those with faith. My Kenyan folks seemed to be of the evangelical kind, passionate and unquestioning in their dogma. Because of this zealotry, I’d stopped accepting friendships from people in that part of the world some time ago.  The plethora of “amens,” and “praise God” for sunrises and hiccups was overwhelming.

Much has changed since the early 1960s when I arrived in East Africa.  I admit Christian missionaries had a firm grip on that part of the world then. Even so, many Africans continued to give a nod to their old gods.  A survey among South Africans at the time revealed a majority continued to visit witch doctors for their ailments as well as physicians.  

East Africa was a patchwork of colonial rule back then.  England had crushed the Mau Mau uprising in 1959, but the seeds of independence persisted. The cry Uhuru, Swahili for “freedom,” rode on the Sub-Saharan winds as loud as the bullets that soon followed. Outnumbered, the colonists relinquished their power, at last, and the descendants of the 42 tribes of Kenya were free to govern themselves.

The Africans who rejected European overlords kept their God, condemning the deities of past centuries to the shadows. The reason why the old spirits were banished escapes me. Nor can I account for the 4,200 religions that exist in the world, each preaching different gospels.

To add to the confusion, the word of God changes with each reformation. Recently, a reporter asked Pope Francis if Catholics who support abortion should be denied the holy sacraments.  He replied that they should not be denied and made a distinction between dogma and a priest’s pastoral duties.  His is a  different view from that of the Holy Inquisition. In that century, a priest’s pastoral duty was to torture a wayward parishioner until the victim repented or died.       

Other philosophical contradictions among Christian churches are noteworthy, as well. Some oppose the death penalty. Others do not.  Many make accommodations for abortion.  The Catholic Church and some Evangelical faiths do not. For most, wealth impedes the path to salvation. Yet, the Pope lives in a palace, and in the United States, some Evangelical pastors have turned tax-exempt money into equally golden abodes. One writer speculates these “charitable” exemptions cost the U. S. taxpayer approximately $6.9 billion a year. (“How much do religious organizations not pay?” by Ryan Cragan, Freethought Today, Oct. 2021, pg. 3.)

Christian churches also take differing views on climate change,  gun control, and wearing masks during the Covid-19 pandemic. One pastor accepts cash from those seeking religious exemptions for vaccinations.  As a sidebar, 90% of U. S. atheists are vaccinated compared to 57% of white evangelicals and 73% of the country’s adults overall.”  (“In the News,” Freethought Today, October 2021, pg. 8.)

The Kenyans who cast me aside for being an atheist have a right to do so and their reason is understandable. Life is simpler for those who ignore the whisperings of doubters and put their faith in a god. The decision absolves them from responsibility. If all that exists or occurs is God’s will, then God is accountable for good and evil in the world. But if true, churches are unnecessary. The dogma that tells individuals what to think, what to wear, and what to eat is irrelevant.  Questions of guilt or innocence have no meaning.    

Regrettably, an atheist’s habit is to ask questions. “What if God doesn’t exist? How does that impact the world?”

 With or without a god, human beings are social animals. As such, we need rules to foster cooperation. Paramount among these are the ethical tenets from which morality, laws, and governments spring.  If no god exists, the species has no choice but to develop a moral compass.

No study has shown that religious people are more moral than atheists.  Quite the opposite.  Both groups require standards of conduct.  The difference between those who accept faith-based rules compared to those who chose to be secular Is the way people use their brains.  “…atheists [are] more likely than believers to base their judgments about what is or isn’t moral based on the consequences of their actions.

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  1. Louis Wachsmuth October 19, 2021 at 7:27 am Reply
    For your amusement, I basically have been ‘unfriended’ by my own family. Although I am a very strong follower of Jesus, I quit all church functions several years ago. My family, all serious church-involved people, never ask why I quit. Though my wife is on staff at the church, no one from that church has ever called old Lou to ask ‘why’. My last communications with leadership resulted in “That’s a real good question, Lou, I’ll get back to you.” Of course they never do. Christian conservative churches do not want individuals who ask too many questions about serious issues. No, you go to Sunday church each week, stand for thirty minutes while a bunch of poorly dressed young folks beat on drums and guitars, moan some awful songs, sounding like dying cats, then sit and listen to a sermon of which you have heard hundreds of times over the last decades. What? You don’t want to hear about great American sports heroes and how it relates to daily living? What? You would dare question rightwing, republican social policies which conflict with the words of Jesus? And, then there is the issue of “Trump”.
    • Caroline Miller October 19, 2021 at 9:04 am Reply
      Yikes. Getting unfriended on Facebook sounds much kinder. :)
  2. Kathy Anderson October 19, 2021 at 11:10 am Reply
    I've just listened to a Kelly Corrigan Wonders podcast about the work being done by an evangelical minister and a Muslim imam to bring people of different faiths together in friendship. And they don't exclude atheists from the conversation, either.
    • Caroline Miller October 19, 2021 at 1:05 pm Reply
      Thank you for sharing that information, Kathy.
  3. Anne Morin October 19, 2021 at 5:28 pm Reply
    Dear Friend: I so appreciated your take on this issue that has torn families, communities, states, and countries apart for these many centuries. I am living in a park for seniors who are, at least from my perspective, almost 100% Christians in the extreme. My three-year journey here has not been productive, healthy, or happy; intolerance reigns against any who disagree, of which, so far, I note that I seem to be the only one. My life has taught me to be tolerant and, if at all possible, kind when dealing with almost all religious persuasions. My problem with the seemingly endless recipies for Christianity have to do with the word, Truth, and the need to make one's belief the only One acceptable, along with the idea that the two seem, at least to me, to be joined in a marriage of intolerance for any questions or people who ask them. I have discovered a sympathetic response to my questions about all religions on the part of some, especially my African American friends whose church I joined so that I could learn how Christianity had led them on their journey toward what they consider to be freedom, love and respect. I achieved a great deal of insight by simply listening to and sometimes even participating in the religious beliefs and celebrations and interpretations of their belifs by non-Christian Hmong, Mein, Laotian, Vietnamese, Chinese, Japanese, East Indian, African and many other human beings. But I have to say, I haven't found one ideal that appeals to the center of Me for, based on what I've learned, if there is a god or goddess or other being in which I can believe, reason tells me that I can find meaning within Me and nowhere else. It seems to me that intolerance in America has become more acceptable and, I admit, that includes my own, for I will not be dictated to about what I should think or believe, and I am increasingly intolerant of those who attempt to insert their beliefs into my journey and personal interpretation of my values, opinions, and my beliefs. I am also less tolerant of the insistance that beliefs, based on religious understandings that are harmful to others be followed by all, and I find myself, with some frequency, standing alone as I question the idea that all who disagree must be shunned, ignored, and untolerated. To your last point, I found myself in the internet group to which my community goes for interaction with others being forced to follow along with the Christian majority or having my ideas eliminated. My problem with this occurred when one of the people who had a lot to say (with frequency) claimed to be a professional with a leading health care organization and was giving incorrect information about Covid, insisting that people just follow the Christian God and take zinc or other vitamins, long walks, etc. This person, after I contacted them a couple of times, refused to stop even after I reported to the group after research that this person was not a professional and gave information about vaccinations, masking, and distancing. The behavior continued, and I reported that person to the health organization in question. Consequences ensued, and my comments and I were banned from this internet group which changed from an open group to no longer allowing others who were not residents to join in. I feel sad for my neighbors. I have no inspiring words with which I can close this message of thanks to you, Caroline, except to hope that others who are experiencing intolerance will find a way to talk about it; I think that helps. Thanks.
    • Caroline Miller October 20, 2021 at 9:12 am Reply
      Reading of you recent experience, I am reminded of a statement I found in a long, scholarly paper. In it, the author observed many people have no wish to understand; they prefer to be told. You are one who wants to understand as did Einstein and Copernicus and Darwin...
  4. Jane Mantiri October 19, 2021 at 6:40 pm Reply
    Thought provoking blog, as always! In 1978 I led a long battle to keep creationism out of the public school science curriculum. The wrath of fundamentalist Christians from around the state created a horror show backdrop as I formally presented new curriculum guidelines to my fundamentalist superintendent in front of television news cameras and clergy from many faiths. I did prevail and creationism was removed from the curriculum. But now that heavy lift seems small. The metastatic cancer of religious dogma spreads unfettered and it’s destroying us.
    • Caroline Miller October 20, 2021 at 9:03 am Reply
      I admire your courage. I have seen the blood in the eye of avowed Christians and it scares me.

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