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Labiaplasty And Female Liberation

May 03, 2016
by Caroline Miller
cosmetic industry's effect on women's self image, female liberation, labiaplasty, Peggy Orenstein, Wax Dolls, western form of femae circumcision
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Labiaplasty may be one of the saddest words I’ve ever heard and only just learned.  It refers to plastic surgery performed to alter the folds surrounding the female vulvae with the intent of giving them a clam-like appearance.  In the case of a birth deformity, the procedure has its merits, but with the growth of internet pornography and leaked photos of celebrities like Kim Kardishan bearing all, a false standard of perfection threatens the health and even the sexual pleasure of today’s impressionable young women.  (“Wax Dolls,” by Peggy Orenstein, Mother Jones, May, 2016, pg. 58.)  What we are facing is a western form of female circumcision. 

Unfortunately, the demand for labiaplasty comes from women who have bought the notion that exposing and/ or mutilating their bodies represents freedom of choice and makes them liberated — unlike women of the Middle East who swelter in burkas.  But I must ask them to reconsider. What freedom lies in turning the female body into a commodity and pursuing an ideal men are presumed to want?  I’m no expert on the male psyche, but I’m pretty sure those worth attracting aren’t lusting for a Barbie doll, especially as the toy lacks a vagina.

Barbie doll

Courtesy of yahoo.com

Perhaps some women equate sex with power. If so, they are mistaken.  Sex is the weakest form of influence.  Use your body to arouse a man then see how quickly that power diminishes after the orgasm.  Worse, indiscriminate use of that influence invites gender discrimination.  When men feel preyed upon, women seem untrustworthy — a view which allows them to justify holding females in check with patriarchal laws as if women were wanton children. 

With each iteration of women’s liberation, I see failure whenever men become the yardstick for what freedom means.  In the early days, women dressed like men, drank like men, and paid male strippers to perform at parties.  Today, women want to celebrate themselves and their bodies. Good. Yet mutilation to achieve a standard of perfection takes them away from liberation.  

Every day men show their wives and lovers devotion despite physical imperfections. They have loved us in powdered wigs and pompadours, in bustles and wasp waists, in long skirts or short.  They are not our greatest critics.  We women are the enemy, estranged from ourselves by a cosmetic industry that survives by promoting a  perpetual sense of inadequacy within us.  What do men want?  They want to be loved and we can’t do that properly until we learn to love ourselves…just as we are.

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  1. Mary Hennrich May 3, 2016 at 5:12 pm Reply
    So well said, Carrie. This is so very sad! Coming of age during the Sixties and working for women's liberation my entire adult life, makes me shake my head disdainfully at what is happening. Discouraging to say the least, but we can't stop working and trying to be positive role models for girls and young women.
    • Caroline Miller May 3, 2016 at 6:00 pm Reply
      Yes, Mary, it would seem we old girls still have our work cut out for us. The message hasn't gotten through. Thank you for your efforts in the cause. I know how hard you've worked.

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Portland, Oregon author Caroline Miller had distinguished careers as an educator, union president, elected official and artist/advocate.

Her play, Woman on the Scarlet Beast, was performed at the Post5 Theatre, Portland, OR, January/February 2015

Caroline published a serialized novelette, Marie Eau-Claire, on the website, The Colored Lens.  She also published the story Gustav Pavel,  a parable about ordinary lives, choice and alternate potential, on the website Fixional.co.

Caroline has published four novels

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