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Old Age And A Little Intercourse With The World

Aug 05, 2013
by Caroline Miller
"Awakenings", "The Joy of Old Age", "The Man Who Mistook His Wife Foir A Hat", baby boomers, growing old, leisure, Oliver Sacks
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One of my blog readers sent me an article from the New York Times, recently. Oliver Sacks wrote it. He’s a neurologist and bestselling author of notable books like Awakenings and The Man Who Mistook His Wife For A Hat. He was ruminating on his upcoming 80th birthday. I’ve written a fair amount about aging, having reached an advanced one myself, so the sender thought I might enjoy Sack’s premise: that as we grow older, we grow happier. I know the premise is true because science has proved it. When we age our frontal lobes shrink and so, unlike Romeo and Juliet, we have fewer emotional peaks and valleys. But Sacks looks at the process differently. He says seniors are happier because, to quote Nathaniel Hawthorne, once freed from work, we can “have intercourse with the world.” (“The Joy of Old Age. (No Kidding.)” by Oliver Sacks, New York Times, 7/7/13.)

 Leisure, of course, is what we dream about even in childhood. Staring from classroom windows while the teacher drones on about subjects and predicates, we imagine ourselves running barefoot on the lawn or having a water fight with friends. Youth is probably the best time to enjoy leisure, but life has its own idea about that. Ease comes when our hair is thinning and our waistbands expanding. Perhaps leisure is nature’s compensation for requiring us to wear glasses or walk with canes.

 Leisure is a gift, to be sure, but one has to learn how to use it. The lesson isn’t easy. It’s not like gulping a slurpee or finding sea urchins in a tide pool at the beach.

 If I were talking to a young person, I’d advise him or her to take classes on the subject, the earlier the better, because leisure usually arrives with a shock. Some people even fear it and go back to work.

I’d like to think that as the baby boomers retire, they’ll do as much with their leisure as they did with their youth, which was a lot, by the way: the civil rights movement, the Vietnam war protests, the passage of the Clear Air and Clean Water Act, women’s liberation…

I can imagine them now, rolling down the National Mall in their wheelchairs or with walkers as they demonstrate for improved education, for the 99% who’d like a bit more of the pie and for real action on climate control. In my leisure, I can see them by the hundreds of thousands and the sight makes me happy.

demonstration on the National Mall

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(Courtesy of www.dailymail.com)

 

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  1. Kitty Miller August 7, 2013 at 10:17 am Reply
    You are spot on Again, Caroline! In my 60's I now find myself enjoying periods of unexpected euphoria...and not the medicinally or alcohol enhanced kind! When I tell nervous friends in their 40's and 50's that the 60's are truly happier, they look at me with great gratitude (even if a bit of disbelief). I guess if they are lucky enough, and plan well enough, they just might get to find the truth of it. Until then, it is fun to pass along some Good news about aging...
    • Caroline Miller August 7, 2013 at 10:27 am Reply
      Ah, Kitty, you're one of those baby boomers I was writing about. I truly believe the world still looks to your generation for leadership, and so for the lessons have been on how to stay happy and relevant. Or maybe "happy" and "relevant" are the same things.

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Portland, Oregon author Caroline Miller had distinguished careers as an educator, union president, elected official and artist/advocate.

Her play, Woman on the Scarlet Beast, was performed at the Post5 Theatre, Portland, OR, January/February 2015

Caroline published a serialized novelette, Marie Eau-Claire, on the website, The Colored Lens.  She also published the story Gustav Pavel,  a parable about ordinary lives, choice and alternate potential, on the website Fixional.co.

Caroline has published four novels

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