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On The Occasion Of My Mother’s 100th Birthday

Oct 09, 2019
by Caroline Miller
defining art, Mark Kingwell, Outside the White Box, what is art?, words as a writer's tools
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Recently, my mother celebrated her 100th birthday.  I took her to lunch at a restaurant we’d frequented over the years.  The proprietor doesn’t open in the afternoons, but for us he did. To make the occasion festive, I brought a  balloon and birthday cards sent by my friends who knew this was her special day.  After a 100 years, none of her peers remain.

As we waited for our meal, the two of us made light conversation.  By now, we know each other so well, words aren’t really necessary.  Still, she struggled to find them, and when they evaded her, I noted the despair in her eyes.  The best I could do was smile and fill in the gaps, behaving as if losing the capacity for speech were as common as air.

Forgetting words represents a special hell for me, a struggling writer. Other art forms, music, sculpture, painting have no need for language — which is why, I suppose,  critics exist: to translate the artist’s medium into a message for the rest of us.  In my opinion, it’s a futile effort.  In his latest book, Portraits: John Berger on Artists, the author agrees with me, describing the critic, of which he is also one,  as, “somebody who judged and pontificated about things he knew a little or nothing about.” (“Outside the White Box,” by Mark Kingwell, Harper’s, Feb. 2016, pg. 93. )

Having settled that matter for himself, Berger goes on to ask what art is by examining the conclusion of others.  Some say art is whatever the artist says it is. (Ibid. Pg.91)  A urinal filled with candy is art if it resides in a museum.  Or,  “art is a call to arms or for spiritual improvement.” (Ibid pg. 91)  Perhaps it’s “revelatory of the human condition.” (Ibid pg. 94.)  Or it’s truth: a way of reconfiguring what we suppose we know into something fresh.  At its very best, Berger summarizes,  art  “conjures] up the presence of something which is not there.” (Ibid pg. 94.) 

Though it may seem like buck-passing, I agree with the first proposal.  Art is whatever the artist says it is.  Didn’t Warhol teach us that with his soup can?  Once created, the audience can wrangle about whether or not the experience is revelatory or magical and whether or not the work should be buried or immortalized — a decision not to be relegated to keepers of the cannon alone, or Catcher in the Rye might never have seen the light of day.

To be honest, all I know of art is that it’s fluid, like language.  Catching a falling star would be easier than pinning art’s intention to a mat, like a butterfly. To be art, it must soar.  At the very least, art is an attempt to escape our inner world and touch others.  For a writer, words create that revelatory or magical connection.  That’s why, on the occasion of my mother’s 100 birthday, I went home and cried.

(Originally Published 2/22/16)

 

 

 

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  1. Pamela February 22, 2016 at 10:26 am Reply
    This one broke my heart, Caroline. What a profound springboard you used to examine the importance (or not) of language and art. Please tell your mother happy, wondrous birthday from this stranger. It is beautiful that you have each other and that you both have lived such elegant lives.
    • Caroline Miller February 22, 2016 at 11:54 am Reply
      When a writer pauses to read the words of another writer, that is praise to cherish.
  2. Betsy February 22, 2016 at 1:08 pm Reply
    I loved this essay, and it rang a bell on the yearning need to keep the deepest core sense of one's self extant during the aging process. Only recently, as my hearing worsened despite hearing aids, I realized that I am a listener, and have always been so, at work and for pleasure. This ups the anti on what I am willing to pay for well working hearing aids, when available.
    • Caroline Miller February 22, 2016 at 2:32 pm Reply
      We share the same affliction. I understand.
  3. Annie Stratton February 24, 2016 at 5:09 pm Reply
    Oh, Caroline...as you may remember, I have an aunt close to your mother's age who is like a second mother to me. I have had so many dynamic conversations with her over the years. She's not educated in the formal sense, but pays attention, and has been one of the most insightful people I have ever known. I have cherished her fount of family stories, stories about her own life, and observations about the events and happenings of today. In the last year, I've noticed the same process, and it is harder because we communicate almost entirely by phone, and she is becoming increasingly hard-of-hearing. She will be 99 this coming June, and I can sense her slowly receding. I read these words of yours: "...art is an attempt to escape our inner world and touch others. For a writer, words create that revelatory or magical connection." I am crying too. My aunt is a story-teller and so am I, and that connection words created for us is loosening-- a word I suspect is related to loss. You and I are already grieving that loss.
    • Caroline Miller February 24, 2016 at 5:42 pm Reply
      Yes, we are grieving together. But in sharing our sense of loss, perhaps we make a place of companionship for someone else who is going through the same goodbyes. Perhaps, in this way, we give comfort to others. Thank yo for sharing, Annie.
  4. mark fivecoat October 9, 2019 at 2:13 pm Reply
    Art is an attempt to escape our inner world and toucher others'. Well said and thought provoking - thanks.
    • Caroline Miller October 9, 2019 at 2:44 pm Reply
      Provoking thoughts---that's what we old teachers do. A habit we can't control.

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Portland, Oregon author Caroline Miller had distinguished careers as an educator, union president, elected official and artist/advocate.

Her play, Woman on the Scarlet Beast, was performed at the Post5 Theatre, Portland, OR, January/February 2015

Caroline published a serialized novelette, Marie Eau-Claire, on the website, The Colored Lens.  She also published the story Gustav Pavel,  a parable about ordinary lives, choice and alternate potential, on the website Fixional.co.

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