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The Compliment That Insults

Oct 05, 2018
by Caroline Miller
Andrea Hill Sanchez, Brett Kavanaugh, Justice Sonia Sotomayor, language and prejudice, Richard Powers, The Overstory
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Supreme Court Justice Soto Mayo courtesy of Huffingtonpost.com

In his popular novel, The Overstory, Richard Powers creates a woman who devotes her life to the study of trees.  Her diligence rewards her.  She makes an astounding discovery.  Trees communicate with each other through the air.  Though her research is scrupulous, her male colleagues laugh, cast doubts upon the data and even refuse to pay her the courtesy of referring to her as “doctor.”  In their critiques, they speak of her as “Patricia.” 

Trivializing a woman’s thoughts isn’t new.  Over the course of the world’s misogynistic history, women are rarely credited with being worth more than  half a man.  We observe this bias most elegantly in Brett Kavanaugh’s endorsements for the Supreme Court when compared to those for Justice Sonia Sotomayor.  

Andrea Hill  Sanchez, a Yale Law School graduate like Mayor and Kavanaugh, refreshes our memory.  She reminds us that words associated with Kavanaugh are “intellectual,” “thoughtful” “clear,” and “learned.”   Candidate Sotomayor’ supporters  saw her as “a warm, wonderful human being,” a jurist “who combines heart and head.”

I see nothing wrong with a judge  being a wonderful human being, but as Sanchez points out, the quality is more akin to being a nurse or an elementary school teacher.  Remarking  on softer attributes can be code for “not an intellect” or, more importantly, “not quite one of us.”

Language matters.  If a woman imagines she has gained equality with her male counterparts, let her stand aside and listen to the comments of her peers.  She may discover an unspoken prejudice lies beneath the compliment. 

 

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  1. John Briggs October 5, 2018 at 5:09 pm Reply
    I liked the Russians' nickname for Margaret Thatcher: The Iron Lady.
    • Caroline Miller October 5, 2018 at 5:40 pm Reply
      Agreed. And didn't the media refer to Jimmy Carter's wife, Rosalynn, as the iron fist within the velvet glove?

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Portland, Oregon author Caroline Miller had distinguished careers as an educator, union president, elected official and artist/advocate.

Her play, Woman on the Scarlet Beast, was performed at the Post5 Theatre, Portland, OR, January/February 2015

Caroline published a serialized novelette, Marie Eau-Claire, on the website, The Colored Lens.  She also published the story Gustav Pavel,  a parable about ordinary lives, choice and alternate potential, on the website Fixional.co.

Caroline has published five novels

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